Oh, I feel this. My now-husband was in a popular local band in my hometown when we first met (I actually WAS a groupie, and he was fortunately single at the time) and they even toured regionally, sometimes on the road for three or four weeks at a time. It was difficult for a fledgling relationship where one person (me) was very young and very jealous. Fortunately, we persevered, and I truly believe he never cheated on me. While the band life was sometimes hard on us, I also loved watching him perform and it never would have occurred to me to ask him to stop. Looking back, I’m really glad I didn’t.